Also I don't really get why you think it's not on top of my list.
It's not because I don't fix it in the hour that it's not important for me to fix. Sometimes I just don't have time or willing to work on my free time.
Either way it should be solved : Instead of losing the game, disconnection make your ACU recalling (normal recall).
- Either it succeed and you are safe.
- Your enemy kill you and you either auto-recall or die.
Either way, your army won't go away and the game won't stop until your ACU is either dead or recalled.