Joining someone else's game or trying to start a game nets the same result - a lobby screen with a "connecting, abort connection" dialogue box.
I am not using mods,
I am only using Seton's Clutch map so no contraversial maps when I try to create a game
I have tried turning off firewall and anti virus
I have reset router
I have reset computer
I have linked game to Steam
I have reinstalled game and FAF
Here are the logs from both a test of the proxy server and an attempt to join a game